In wake of my new found love for blogging, dare I touch on the subject of sex & its allure which co-insides with absolute bliss? Well, I am going to forge ahead anyway and open you up to a very analytical & critical thinker such as me, in one of my most favorite subjects. To not write about it would be denying my whole truth in all my bliss, plus I have the sexed confidence as a woman and can write whatever I want.
The subtle body is alive, full of meanings, poetic, expressive in every organ & part, intimately connected to emotion & feeling, and by no means least, beautiful. This is the body that engages in sex, a body with so much soul that any attempt to deny its layers of meaning will likely come back to haunt you.
The looking that goes on is sex is not mere seeing, we are looking for sheer pleasure of it & the raw physical gratification. Gazing erotically at the human body, I’m frozen by its allure, & engaged by its profound allure of wonder, full of fascination & pleasure. In compulsive sexual curiosity I suppose I look at the erotic body religiously with deep devotion & with a transcendent goal.
I crave the one thing most people repress- the need to explore & contemplate the mysteries of powerful desire, intimacy, and the drama of erotic encounter. Life is a door to existence & through the loved person we find deliverance. My husband is my deliverance who I cherish. With my husband, sex is also a doorway where life is lived by us and very well together, I might add.
When I present myself to the gaze of my husband, I am making a gift and likewise. Letting down tools of self-protection & defenses, exposing self to a soul’s reflection….not being seen just in physical stature, but in my very being. The intense feelings involved in disrobing, the inhibition as well as the pleasure of self-exhibition, are due not merely to physical condition but to the emotional. It’s an enormous thing in any life to be made visible; to be revealed. Sex is alluring & at the same time overwhelming in its sheer vitality & emotional power. Sometimes it may offend dignity because it’s more than human, not less?
We all need the adult voice of responsibility & the adolescent voice of raging hormone to fully enjoy the balance of sex & be overly blissed & taken away by it. Imagine becoming less certain & less informed, getting in touch with your foolishness & ignorance rather than your intelligence, & learning to allow sensation to dim rationality. Imagine personal growth as a matter of becoming more humorous & more earthy; and emotional health as being in touch with body & give into pleasure. Hmmmmm….great way of thinking, don’t you think?
In sex an inner life of strong emotions & vivid fantasies meets with a real person to create a moment of exceptional intensity when life is full and reason is dim…..the hunger that can’t resist the appetite so to speak. Which this brings us now to “orgasm”, the elicit physical joy of pleasure! In the Greek dictionary, it describes orgasm as a sacred place- Amen to that! Also in note of the Greeks, let me talk about the “human bottom” (buttocks) which is extremely deserving of its esteem. The Greeks entertained a high notion of its beauty (as does my husband). The “ass” is a figure of lustful excess & violent disorder. Now that’s good stuff, gotta love the Greeks & their wise take on things as grand as the booty.
Now, where you can destroy your bliss by sex is having negative attitudes towards sex which can interfere with its vitality. This special level of sensitivity requires a high degree of openness. Great sex requires that we leave ordinary reality behind by entering as deeply into sensation, imagination, & passion. Through our partner we glimpse something that human creativity can’t manufacture. The world is more interested in making new gadgets, yet never spends time developing inner technologies like imagination and invitation. Imagination is the realm of all bliss.
Affection is the process of making love sensual, and so it may lead towards sex, so as not to lead by manipulation & emptiness. Affection is a doing kind of love, not a thinking one, or always having to ask one. I’ve seen couples who both show no affection or either one does while the other does not and these are the relationships that are usually missing full bliss….they’re not on the same level of love… sadly. Folks who live with a sensation of heaviness have difficulty finding joy in life due to deep seated habit of forbidding themselves to certain pleasures & satisfactions. Joyful/blissful sex requires that our morality be mature & alive. Complexes are negative in tone, but they are the raw stuff of one ’s self that needs to be refined to the point where it can be woven into the whole fabric of life & personality.
Basically to sum this all up, sex finds natural expression in loving, passion, & active attention. Sexual desire can be satisfied in creative engagement, as long as desire, passion, pleasure, and other qualities of sex are brought into the enterprise. Sex is a God given gift; never take it for granted and if you’re doing it right, you should be happy as a lark! It makes for a great hobby too. I can’t imagine any of my future blogs will ever be as interesting as this subject matter I’ve just embarked on…we shall see…till then walk around with your head up blissfully sexed beyond belief!
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