Do you have an excuse for everything that entails fun, self-expression, stepping out of your comfort zone, trying new things, obligations, engagements, actually falling through with interest & engagements? If in fact you can identify with any of these, then you are blocking yourself from your own bliss and you need to dig out of this rut!
On far too many occasions I come across folks that will not try new things regurgitating the lamest of the lame excuses. For example, a group of lady friends are taking a dance class and one is less incline to participate delivering the line “I don’t dance, it’s not my thing”. Now although that may truly be the case, why miss out with what most likely will turn out to be a good time with girlfriends anyway? And who knows you may discover something new about yourself along the way. Now, I’m not promising you will actually learn what you so hesitantly have avoided however, you made the first step to getting out of your excuse habit.
The more you take the extra step of conquering your own excuses, the less excuses you’ll be making in the future. I suppose my point is when you deny yourself an opportunity to grow & learn about one’s self in any way or manner, you are not learning new things and allowing growth in who you are or may be. The more you can experience things in life the more free you become to do anything and that is pure BLISS. It adds a confidence & knowledge within that you would not have discovered otherwise with an excuse. If you try it once and it does not work for you then you have your answer and a legit excuse to decline if asked again. So when you are in moments of question, remember to “stop extracting your bliss with what is nothing short of an excuse”.
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